Amateure Stuff: 2011

women in chasing the best time

Just wondering when the best time for women to marry? Still so many argue about it. Some people say that women shouldn`t marry above 28. But some of them think that above 30 is oke because carrier is more important. But I have my own opinion on that. I have my own that I called mid-term to get marry. 26 - 28 I guess is the good and the precise time for women to have a new family. Why?

because the women is more mature than men. She grows one step a head from men. It means that women in the same age of the men, has her maturity with the aging grown a head also. Men can look like just an early 30, but what about women? With the same age, men younger and more fresh than women. So it is called by aging start from 30 to women stuff;
women has shorter fertility than a men. That`s why no wonder so many elder (above 70 years-old-men can have another young wife and have a child). Men has longer limit to produce their fertility. It means that God knows that women has great responsibility to grow up their child nor to pregnant again (this is not eligble to my mom, hehe because she already got their new child "shaquilla" on her 42 years-old);
women always think about their future. above 25 -> get marry, early 30 -> has 2 years toddlers while preparing the second-baby-program, 35 -> good self-actualization within the nice children with a wonderfull-helpfull-and loveable-husband, 40 -> the toddlers grown up and become a good children then teenager.... and so until the time to have the time to retire and just enjoy with the family.
women really need a preparation about physically and mentally about having a children. So many women have a baby-blues-syndrome after giving birth. most of them because they had no idea about having a baby. How to take care of, to comfort, to feed, to hold even to bath. Some of them enjoy having a baby but they don`t realize that they have their syndrome so makes they stress out and just cry. So what the responsibility of a husband in here? A men should know about it and understand about how hard it is. They just have to do all that kind of stuff hand in hand. Just limit the ego and that`s about called family-step.
ship needs a dock to anchor. So does women. They need men to rely on. Need a shoulder to cry on. And need to serve with. That`s about dedication. They willing to dedicate their life just for their family with their best effort. They will do everything just to make a really good-family with a good family-education. So when somebody have a great life just see their mom.
women also have their needs. So don`t be hypocrite and just admit that the needs should be fullfilled.